“Feeling like you are able to just give in and stop resisting can make it feel good. Being in a mood of particularly low self-worth can make this easier too.”
“Letting go of free will and just submitting to the pain”
“feeling like you are getting the mistreatment what you deserve.”
This is exactly my experience with getting hit by my bf 😵💫. It hurts like hell but once I get pushed over a certain critical point (much to my resistance) I go completely limp and just take the hits as they come without having to have any agency or make any decisions. Easier if I feel I deserve the punishment at the time, ofc.
Afterwards is even better though. Being able to just cry and be held while I’m broken down and vulnerable is peak. And he’s so so sweet to me, praises me for getting through it and all that. I really feel owned, and by someone worthy.
I’ve been put through some pain that frankly I deserved and then pulled out of it by my owner.
“Feeling like you are able to just give in and stop resisting can make it feel good. Being in a mood of particularly low self-worth can make this easier too.”
“Letting go of free will and just submitting to the pain”
“feeling like you are getting the mistreatment what you deserve.”
This is exactly my experience with getting hit by my bf 😵💫. It hurts like hell but once I get pushed over a certain critical point (much to my resistance) I go completely limp and just take the hits as they come without having to have any agency or make any decisions. Easier if I feel I deserve the punishment at the time, ofc.
Afterwards is even better though. Being able to just cry and be held while I’m broken down and vulnerable is peak. And he’s so so sweet to me, praises me for getting through it and all that. I really feel owned, and by someone worthy.
I’ve been put through some pain that frankly I deserved and then pulled out of it by my owner.
I think it’s good bonding for the both of us.